Anyway, I've compiled a collection of gems for you all to read and learn about my thoughts and feelings that you probably weren't previously aware of on a variety of subjects! Of course, my thoughts on any subject are always important to know.
On if there is a line between fantasy and reality that is not to be crossed:
I find the lines between fantasy and reality to be blurred because, for me, fantasy often becomes reality, in the same way that life imitates art imitates life. That goes for my own fantasies as well as the fantasies of subs if I have enough time to work with them. Whether or not they originally wanted it to become a reality becomes kind of irrelevant at that point. Often they don't even originally know what they really want anyway.
On the perception that Dommes who prefer cash tributes are somehow "fake" and that sending cash to a Domme is "impersonal":
You know, not everything that I can use and enjoy can be purchased through amazon. I do like shopping at other stores that don't always offer gift cards. I do like to spend my money at the spur-of-the-moment and would rather pull out my debit card than go home and wait for a slave to send me a gift card for that particular store or restaurant. Since I don't work, unless you count my clip stores (which I also consider to be slave acquired cash), all the cash in my checking account has been acquired through slaves. I don't think that contributing toward my rent and bills every month and my future vacations should be considered a cold and joyless experience of sending cash that you don't know will be used and enjoyed. If anything, I use and enjoy my cash tributes more than my amazon gifts, because I can actually use it whenever I want, however I want, everyday of my life. From stopping to grab a coffee, to a spontaneous shopping spree through the mall, to filling up my gas tank, to buying a new painting to hang on my wall.. I am thrilled every time I swipe that debit card full of cold hard slave cash. It's certainly not impersonal. Unlike mailing me a dress or a pair of shoes that I will only get so much use and enjoyment out of, adding cash to my bank account actually makes your tribute a meaningful part of my daily life.
My new loft is entirely paid off for the year with slave cash. Considering that this is my home now, I consider it to be quite a personal gift that many slaves had a part in contributing to and should feel very joyful and proud about doing so.
On money, class, and the behavior of a classy Domme in everyday life vs. in the fetish community:
Money definitely cannot buy class. Being classy involves a certain amount of graceful modesty. I was raised to never talk about money or flash my things around obnoxiously. It comes across as tacky and often the people who behave that way in everyday life are the ones who don't really have as much money as they say they do. However, this fetish community is an outlet to shamelessly brag and show off all the money and gifts that we want to because it's a display of the power we have over our slaves. :)
On the eternal feminist dilemma of if and when we should or should not allow men to open doors for us:
I love when men do things like open doors for me when they do it because they just want to show a sign of their RESPECT for me. That's completely different than some clumsy ox trying to suggest that the door is too heavy for me to handle without him.. LOL!
On dumb bitches who think they can spam forums begging for shit and making Financial Domination look trashy and ridiculous:
Financial Dommes are not charity cases. Nobody cares if your babyshower is coming up, or if you're saving up for a new exhaust pipe. It's called borrowing from family/friends or taking out a fucking loan. Is your credit really that bad? Half the posts on here look like they should be written on pieces of cardboard and held up over an intersection while everybody awkwardly tries not to make eye contact during the red light.
On my feelings about racial humiliation/domination/play:
I get a lot of arabs and muslims who want race or religious humiliation. I like it. I also genuinely dislike islam.
I also like to insult asians for their little dicks, and blacks just because it's funny to pull out old racist stereotypes, like, for example, making a black slave fuck a watermelon until he cums and then eat it, or dance the carlton while wearing overalls and painting giant red lips on himself like those old cartoons. I've always found offensive humor funny, mainly because it's so exaggerated and offensive.
I'd also make fun of white boys for being pale and nerdy and having small dicks compared to the blacks. Idgaf. At least the blacks have huge dicks.
On why I prefer slaves to buy me gifts, even when it's something I could easily just buy for myself:
I love when slaves buy me things that I could easily just buy myself. It makes me that much happier with my material possessions when I know that a slave paid for them because that way it's not just something that I enjoy owning but its also a permanent reminder of my own power and control, which just feeds my ego and makes me love it even more.
That's all for now. Feel free to ask me any other questions or bring up more topics that you'd like to know my opinion on using my formspring at http://www.formspring.me/AdrienneAdora
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This is a good entry. I enjoyed the read.
ReplyDeleteI am no fan of the Domme Dose. Because as evryone who knows me knows I consider the DD should be titles the Porn Dose. I also do not like reading of FD's writing of boyfriends (except if their BF is also her slave. But that is another issue that I do not desire to be sidetracked on.
Fantasy and Reality. Nice. I was not really clear of your perspective on the subject of fantasy vs. reality. I will have to re read it again. I am not one who enjoys fantasy. I am too grounded in reality. Though I have interest and fetishes that I only hope to be a part of that have yet to come to fruition.
I prefer to send cash above any other method. I consider a cash transfer to be very personal. It represents my efforts to benefit the FD. It is a lot better then sending a gift card or making a purchase of a pair of shoes that may never be worn and left in a closet for years until the FD moves out and calls the Salvation Army Donation Center.
Classy FD's get my attention. In the FD world I think it great class to display the cash they acquired from their slaves. I know that displays of cash holding of actual slave acquired cash is a big turn on at least for me. And is similar to a work of art. FD's who really want to be and enjoy being a FD and who love and /or at least like and appreciate their slaves and others who practice the art of FD are those who earn a favorable mention.
Most money slaves (Me included) also accept female supremacy. Or at least elements of it. Though I do not believe that either gender has clear superiority their are things that overall men are generally better at then women and women are better at then men. For example. If I need emotional support I would prefer affirmation from a woman in many cases. But, if I wanted a technical job done I would probably prefer a man to complete the task.
This has been a age old complaint from the first mention of FD online back in the late 1990's. FD is a haven for fraud and scams. A lot of women come and go into the FD interest all the time as a way to make a few quick bucks. Those of us who truly practice the art of FD have to learn to accept the reality that most of what is claimed to be FD is in reality not FD.
As for your mention of upcoming baby showers and exhaust pipe needing replacement. Probably not a good idea to mention except to your already established owned slaves and fans who you should be able to communicate your own personal needs and wants to with a lot more intimacy. Takes time to get to that point in a FD relationship.
This is interesting. As a white FD it is interesting you get this much from Arabs. Personally, I hate Jihads. Though I know not all Arabs or even not all Muslims may not be Jihads. But another subject. As a white slave. I prefer Black FD's. That is because I consider Black FD's more naturally inclined to practice FD. Thought I also seen horrible Black FD's and excellent White FD's. To me, as a White submissive I can find no better FD to enhance my submission than to a Black, Hispanic or Asian FD. Problem is I find so very few of them who understand this need and who know how to successfully work this aspect of racial domination into the FD art. However, as I wrote earlier, I have experienced excellent White FD's too. As for humiliation, not much interested in that part.
Not much to write on that. However, happy to read of a FD who feels that excitement and thrill knowing her slaves worked for what she has.
As for my thoughts of you:
I am impressed with you. You seem to be coming along nicely as a FD. You are pretty with nice legs. You seem relatively together and smart. That always gets my attention
Wow, what a long response and I didn't even notice it until now! I wonder if you've figured out my perspective on the subject of fantasy vs. reality yet.
ReplyDeleteAnd.. "relatively together." Haha, I think I like that! ;)
Always loving the thrill.
-- Miss Adrienne
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